Growing up, I've often heard adults saying that parents should not argue in front of their kids. Some would say that this would affect the child's emotions and would even create trauma. But recently, i came across this article that really caught me by surprise. Arguing in front of the kids could have positive effects afterall. Read.
Reasons why you should argue in front of the kids:
1) Constructive arguing allows you to model respectful disagreement. When respect is present, there is no put-downs.
2) Children see conflict resolution in action. Parents don't have to pretend that they are always in agreement as long as they resolve differences constructively.
3) Conflict spotlights individuality. It's important for kids to understand that Mom and Dad have their own ideas and views.
4) Kids need to see that emotions are part of life. They need to know how to handle a range of emotions.
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